Anyone with experience with alcoholics!! Please answer!! How can i stay sane!!?

Oh mate, this is terrible. There is nothing much you can do. Try and show love and support to your parents with out sacrificing your survival. You say your out in September? Get out no matter what. No al-anon? Go to an open AA meeting and talk to some people there. Your Dad is a sick person :( That his behavior makes him culpable and your Mum is also part of a game doesn't make them bad people, it is sad and not your fault. In the end the best thing you can do is succeed in your own life, and if you can make it until September and at least be as kind and as generous with your time as you can you are a saint. You do need some kind of outside help though, and that will be an effort. I think if al-anon is not available an open AA meeting is. Talk to doctors, friends, and while I am not even religious I would say pray. Pray that your Mom and Dad can get healthy; as healthy as they can be in this life and support whatever can get that done. Good luck mate.