Give it away-vey: The fate of my finances are in your hands?

I think in the long run, what's another $5k if you've already come down $20k? Especially if you're sure that this new one is for sure the one you want. Try not to think of how much you've come down versus how much he's gone up, because you'll just feel cheated. Look at it as, can I make this work to get the house I want with that amount? If not, I think you have to p.